Mend The Break Up: Heal The Jealousy, Insecurity That Is Ruining Your Love
Is your relationship or marriage on the rocks? Can you feel, the waves crashing on your love affair? Lets face it we have all been there, fallen in love, felt that insane rush of happiness and were convinced this one was forever. But now as that sinking feeling takes you over you are asking the question. What went wrong? Why was he such a jerk? Your heart feeling as though someone had tied a brick to it.
It’s the end of the line for Ben and Sara, their relationship, is done. What seemed so unbreakable is over for good. Their love had been instant nothing seemed to be wrong, they had even begun marriage plans and joked about how many kids they would have. It all seemed so perfect, their friends saw them that way but underneath the cracks were beginning to show. The problem was the relationship Ben had before he met Sara. He caught his girlfriend cheating one night and had never gotten over it. Ben loved this girl and thought she was the one so you can imagine the shock he felt when he came home that night. Ben’s insecurities were about to begin.
Sarah was ecstatic at the news from her boss; he had called her into his office after work to let her know she was getting a raise. Thoughts of the wedding were racing through her head as she opened the door to find Ben been waiting there. He looked really angry as he asked where she had been, then he accused her of having affair with her boss, Sarah was stunned. This was not the guy she had fallen for so easily at the start, this was a monster so she left her home that night. Are you shaking your head, has the penny dropped? How many times have you been in this situation before?
Another relationship ended almost before it had begun. What a shame Ben had not sorted his feelings of insecurity before meeting Sara. Ben was not entirely alone for Sara’s ex partner was a very jealous man and she had been on the end of his vicious attacks many a time Feeling she was in the same place she had ended their relationship and planned not to go back. When the dust had settled Sara felt so alone, she missed Ben and knew she was not going to give up without a fight. Ben was heartbroken and he blamed himself totally, he could not imagine Sara forgiving him, not for this. But Sara was positive their love could be regained it was a matter of showing each other that the past stuff was dead.
With a lot of persuading Sara got her man back! See the thing is Ben could not forgive himself for the harsh words he had said. The positives in this relationship far outweighed the rest, but that green eyed monster had to be put to rest. There is so much help out there to put your relationship on the right track, all you have to do is reach out and grab it., you will never regret it. There is something, so powerful about getting back with an ex, it shows you have a willingness to make things right. Moving onto a new next relationship with the same destructive stuff will only end in a heartbreak and this time it could be tragic.
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